Happy "Metcha Day" to our Toby!

Toby has been in our lives for one year as of today!  He's come a long way in a year!


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  1. M. MuraskiNovember 26, 2016 at 2:09 PM

    A year already! Oh my! Prayers and blessings 🙏🏼💚💙

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